"My apologies for misunderstanding you... As for Deuteronomy 22:5, that is an OLD Testament Law. I don't believe we live under that law anymore because the Bible says in the New Testament Rom. 6:15 that we are not under the law but under grace... But we all are sinners... I don't condemn anyone for cross dressing. I don't know the intentions of your heart, only God does....do not allow people to judge you for what they don't know...The Intentions of Your Heart! Only GOD knows why you do what you do. The main reason I believe people have problem with it is because they don't understand. Understanding is the key to all relationships and issues. Many people don't want to take time to understand... If it does bother you, then that is your conscience telling you that you don't need to do it"
"You've certainly shown that you are not writing out of spite or retaliation. I am going to review my thoughts and see if maybe I acted out of haste in my response to you [but] please allow me to ask some questions that may give me some more insight into this issue."
"Maybe you are right about some dialog being needed. I can't help but feel that there is some motive for the dressing that you are not expressing. There has to be some motive for a person to go against the normal way to dress whether it be rebellion or some other motive. I do feel your sincerity for your conviction and respect that and as long as your heart is pure in your quest to "seek his face" then it will be coming to you attention soon."
"I want to commend you that you are open to discussing cross-dressing... Most people will find someone to tell them what they want to hear and stop at that point. We can always find someone who will tell us that what we're doing is O.K. especially if they're also doing it... The question is, "Is it always wrong for a man to dress as a woman?" If a man is dressing as a woman with the intent to portray himself as a woman, then I believe that it is wrong in accordance with what God has revealed in His Word... If a man puts on a skirt, is that a sin? It depends on the situation. Surely, no one would say that it is a sin for a person in Scotland to wear a kilt. Also if a man dresses as a lady as a joke in a skit, I do not believe that is sin. If a man dresses as a woman, or a woman as a man, with the intent to portray themselves as the sex they are not, then that is wrong... Our lives should never be a stumbling block to others...we need to ask the question, "What would Jesus do?"... If you are a Christian as you say, then in all aspects of your life, bring glory to God."
"I am not "writing you off." I do believe that your behavior is pretty sick, if not sinful. You can be helped if you desire it. If I had an impulse to walk around with a chicken on my head or with a fish in my pocket, there would be nothing morally wrong with that, but it would certainly be a matter of concern. I would need some serious help."