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Four Reasons to not Oppose Same-Sex Marriage By Richard Molling 
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A symbol of equality... because everyone should be able to tie the knot. The White Knot is the symbol for marriage equality. It takes two traditional symbols of marriage—white and tying the knot—and combines them in a simple way to show support for the right of gays and lesbians to marry. All loving couples deserve the same legal rights, benefits, and respect that civil marriage bestows. Visibility is the goal. Whether you are gay or straight, please show your support by wearing the knot and telling people why you are wearing it. It may seem like a small thing, but imagine the white knot gaining the pervasiveness and instant recognition of the AIDS Ribbon. Wear your white knot to work, to school, to your place of worship. Celebrities will be wearing white knots down red carpets this awards season. Together, we will keep the topic at the top of people's minds and keep the conversation going. |
  At A CrossroadsThe struggle for gay civil rights is at a crossroads in America, and even within the GLBT community there are differences of opinion about how the struggle for equality should proceed. While many committed leaders are continuing the long march toward full equality, including equal marriage rights, others are arguing that we have gone too far, too fast, and that we should wait for society to catch up. In determining our path going forward, we should look to the past and learn from the leaders of the civil rights battles that have come before us. |
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Various links to news and cases about domestic partnerships and marriage for same-sex couples sponsored by: 
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America is engaged in a crucial conversation, a conversation about basic values of love, commitment, fairness, and freedom. In every state, in many families, good people are thinking and talking about how excluding same-sex couples from marriage harms them, their kids, and our country. How can you add your voice to this conversation? |
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At the present moment, no state in the U.S. legally recognizes gay marriages. Nevertheless, more and more same-sex couples realize the importance of publicly proclaiming their love. Until the day gay and lesbian relationships are accorded full legal status and holy unions are as commonplace as straight marriages, non-traditional couples have both the burden and the privilege of finding new ways to formally express their commitment to one another.
This site is designed specifically as a resource for all such couples. |
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Gay Marriage Tips This site provides 100 tips about gay marriage. The topics range from gay marriage facts and statistics to gay marriage laws by state and country to gay marriage adoption and divorce. |

Marriage and Relationships Articles about marriage and relationships, from the Independent Gay Forum collection. |
International Commitment Ceremonies Registrar™All Couples Welcome! The International Commitment Ceremonies Registry (ICCR) is an official organization that collects and stores searchable records of Commitment Ceremonies that have been performed all over the world. The ICCR provides Commitment Ceremonies Registration Services. This service is used to create a permanent historical record of one the most important events in a couples life. Many governments do not recognize these unions. The ICCR was created to recognize all these unions on an international level. You can have your commitment registered by ordering a commitment ceremony certificate in the Certificate Center. |


OUR APPROACH Education Speaking engagements, forums, and outreach functions provide our greatest opportunity to educate people on same-sex marriage. Our educational material gives us the opportunity to explain ALL the issues. Using our Marriage Declaration as a vital tool, we meet with organizations and individuals, explaining why marriage matters. Through these meetings, we build coalitions with other gay and non-gay organizations, which increases the number of individuals who believe in equality through marriage. We also provide training classes. Media Campaigns Greater awareness lessens the fear many people have around same-sex marriage. That is why MEUSA actively sponsors and engages in letter-writing to publications, large media events and press conferences, statewide rallies, speak-outs, and other high-profile activities. We believe exposure through film, TV commercials, and print ads are extremely effective. By putting same-sex marriage in the news, we can ensure visibility of the issue. Partnerships Organizing and building coalitions and alliances with social and civil groups, churches and individuals (gay and non-gay) are key to getting our message out. Co-sponsoring events, discussion groups and outreach to the business community are just some of the ways to get the greater community involved with marriage equality. |
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While suits are being filed and courts are upholding the right of same-sex couples to marry, it is causing a backlash with the public. By forcing states to allow gay marriage, we are angering the general public, many of whom may vote otherwise if properly educated on the issue. The goal of MarriageFairness.org is add the other piece to the equation. While the legal routes are being taken we want to take an educational path; showing the average american the effect a ban would have and the real people that are being denied their basic rights. Many americans don't personally know any gay couples and therefore don't fully understand the results of a law or constitutional amendment. Help us put a human face on the issue. Tell us about a current or past love where you would have liked to be married. If you have been denied rights due to a lack of a legal recognition of your relationship or if you would just like to tell the world about someone special in your life ..... |
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| Same-Sex Marriage is a Feminist Issue In the battle for lesbian and gay rights, the issue of equal marriage rights has taken center stage. In a crucial election year, and with many other issues on the table affecting women, why are feminists advocating for same-sex marriage rights? |
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Partners Task Force for Gay & Lesbian Couples An International Resource for Same-sex Couples All families deserve equal treatment. Partners Task Force supports the diverse community of committed gay and lesbian partners through a variety of media. This Web site contains more than 400 essays, surveys, legal articles and resources on legal marriage, ceremonies, domestic partner benefits, relationship tips, parenting, and immigration. Demian, director, Partners Task Force, Box 9685, Seattle, WA 98109-0685 |
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 The Queer Wedding Webring was created to celebrate the Weddings, Unions and Commitment Ceremonies of Lesbian and Gay couples. It began when a lesbian couple were searching the net for ideas and information when planning their own wedding... They came across many wonderful sites, but found they were scattered everywhere and difficult to find. That's how the idea of our own queer wedding webring came about. Some sites contain a couple's perspective on their special day, and are wonderfully uplifting. These are a valuable resource for those planning their own ceremonies. By joining our sites together we can express our pride and show that true love occurs all over this planet, without regard to gender or current laws. Other sites are commercial businesses that are *exclusively* for or about gay and lesbian weddings. These businesses are there to help you make your wedding day as fabulous as possible. |

Welcome to RainbowWeddingNetworkMagazine.com! The Online Home of the Nation's First GLBTQ Wedding & Family Magazine Launched in Aprill 2006, RainbowWeddingNetwork Magazine is your inside source for all the current events, planning resources, trends, home and family ideas and other vital issues for GLBTQ couples, our families, advocates and allies. Exclusive interviews, community connections, poitical dialogue, fashion and fun. RainbowWeddingNetwork Magazine is commited to bringing you the information you need for a stress-free union, happy family life and bright future! |
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Religious Support for Equal Marriage Rights Marriage information supplied by"  |

SAME-SEX MARRIAGES (SSM) & CIVIL UNIONS All Sides to the Issue 
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Same-Sex Marriage A Test Case in Living Our Principles By Rachel Miller |
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Category: Gay, Lesbian & Bi Type: Public Membership Founded: Jul 6, 2004 Location:: Los Angeles, California - US Members: 110,871 |
State & Local Organizations |
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| D O M E S T I C P A R T N E R S R E G I S T R Y Provisions governing domestic partnerships are found in the California Family Code, commencing with section 297. A domestic partnership is established when persons meeting the criteria specified by Family Code section 297 file a Declaration of Domestic Partnership (Form NP/SF DP-1) with the Secretary of State. A copy of the declaration and a Certificate of Registration of Domestic Partnership will be returned to the partners after the declaration is filed. |
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Connecticut |
 Love Makes a Family (LMF) is a statewide non-profit advocacy organization working for equal marriage rights for same-sex couples in Connecticut. We carry out our mission through community education, grassroots organizing and legislative advocacy and lobbying.
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Hawaii |

The Hawai`i Gay Marriage Bureau provides a registration, referral and informational forum for those interested in same-sex marriage registration, marriage certificates, related services and updates on the legal front. |
| Marriage Project Hawaii What is the scope of couples' rights as "Reciprocal Beneficiaries" in Hawaii? This is not an easy question to answer. In broad terms, RB couples have all the rights of marriage that Hawaii can grant as a state, except anything to do with family court (alimony, divorce, child custody resolution, etc.) and fair access to health insurance. There are NO federal benefits (social security, federal income tax deduction, immigration, immunity from testifying against your partner in federal court, etc.) We've written a 200-page book listing the laws. To help people digest this book, we've also prepared three summaries of progressively shorter lengths. All four texts are available here. Please consult an attorney for the interpretation of any of this material, particularly the summaries. |
| A reciprocal beneficiary relationship is a legal partnership between two people who are prohibited from marriage (HRS §572C-2). Certain rights and benefits which are presently available only to married couples are extended to the two individuals who enter into a reciprocal beneficiary relationship. Those persons entering into a reciprocal beneficiary relationship must register their relationship as reciprocal beneficiaries with the Department of Health. The Department of Health is responsible only for registering the relationship. The Department of Health neither makes any determination of the validity of the reciprocal beneficiary relationship nor is an information source on the rights and benefits extended to reciprocal beneficiaries. |
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MassEquality.org is a coalition of local and national organizations defending equal marriage rights for same-sex couples in Massachusetts. We are working to protect the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court's decision on marriage equality and to defeat any discriminatory amendment to the Massachusetts state constitution in the Legislature. |
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The Wedding Party has created the most visible expressions of the marriage movement. Leading the charge since June 2000, The Wedding Party ceremonies have kicked off the NYC gay pride parade. These landmark ceremonies have brought to the forefront the existing inequality that committed same-sex couples endure while creating a positive and realistic face for same-sex couples across the nation. The Wedding Party events consistently provide high profile media to local, national and international networks and their affiliates.
The Wedding Party is an all volunteer nonprofit* organization that supports and celebrates same-sex partnership, and educates the public on the need for equal marriage rights. The Wedding Party is comprised of skilled professionals in the areas of marketing, media, special events and the law. We produce unique, high profile events that bring the community together to give testimony on a national level to the importance of family, commitment and equality. |
Pennsylvania |

Because marriage is a basic human right and individual personal choice, RESOLVED: the state should not interfere with same-gender couples who choose to marry and share fully and equally in the rights, responsibilities, and committment of civil marriage. The marriage resolution |
Rhode Island |

| | MERI is a grassroots movement that seeks legal recognition of same-sex couples through civil marriage in Rhode Island. We believe that a civil society guarantees to all of its citizens certain civil rights; civil marriage is one of these fundamental rights. Each and every adult in Rhode Island - regardless of socioeconomic status, race, ethnicity, religion, gender identity, or sexual orientation - deserves the opportunity to attain the legal protections and safeguards gained through civil marriage. |
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Vermont |
Vermont Civil Union Resource Guide What to do and see when you go to Vermont for a civil union. |
 Vermont's marriage equality lobbying organization |
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 The Vermont Freedom to Marry Task Force (VFMTF) represents a coalition of individuals and associations in Vermont who support the freedom for same-gender couples to enter into civil marriages. Our aim is to educate Vermonters regarding the issues surrounding the freedom to marry. We're proud of the step forward Vermont has taken in passing the civil union law, and we're working with our fellow Vermonters to complete the journey to full marriage equality. |
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The Vermont Guide to Civil Unions |
Washington |

The Legal Marriage Alliance of Washington (LMA) is a nonprofit organization educating the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered community and the general public on how to advance the civil right of same-sex couples to legal marriage. We serve as a resource for same sex marriage information in Washington state. We offer speakers, resource materials, volunteer opportunities, and a public voice for the freedom to marry. LMA was founded in October 1995. |
Wisconsin |

Fair Wisconsin has two divisions: Fair Wisconsin is a statewide organization dedicated to advancing and protecting the civil rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. We carry out this mission through education, legislative advocacy, grassroots organizing, coalition-building and electoral involvement. These efforts are designed to educate the general voting public, sensitize the media, promote a politically active and effective organizational membership, and better inform policy makers on issues of concern to our members. The Fair Wisconsin Education Fund (FWEF) aims to educate the public about the consequences of anti-LGBT discrimination and foster civic engagement around issues of importance to LGBT equality. Fair Wisconsin and FWEF were originally known as Action Wisconsin and the Action Wisconsin Eduction Fund. In March 2006, Action Wisconsin first launched Fair Wisconsin as the political campaign that worked to fight a constitutional amendment banning marriage and civil unions for gay couples that appeared on the November 2006 statewide ballot. Following the election, with input from statewide supporters, leaders of Action Wisconsin and AWEF decided to officially change the names of both organizations to Fair Wisconsin and FWEF. Action Wisconsin was founded in 1994, and the Action Wisconsin Education Fund was founded in 2002. |